If he’s not the guy just break up already

Stop messing around with the wrong guys.

In high school, a random guy asked me out on a date. I said yes. Big deal. Right?

Me, being the nice person that I was just could not say no. To me, the dude was completely unappealing. He was a nice guy but certainly there were no sparks, no chemistry, nothing to build upon.

Next thing I know, we had been together for a few years, he proposes and again I say yes because I couldn’t hurt his feelings. Engagement ring was on my finger. Wedding plans began. Our parents…



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Libby Winkler

Freelance writer living at the intersection of faith and politics. I enjoy exploring all the messiness of humanity.