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The Hard Work of Relaxing

Libby Winkler
3 min readJan 22, 2024

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The confessions of a Type-A personality who is struggling to unwind, disengage, and go off-grid

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The Hard Work of Relaxing: Confessions of a Type-A Personality

For many, relaxation seems like a natural, effortless part of life. But for those of us with a Type-A personality, the concept of unwinding can feel as alien as speaking a foreign language.

It’s about the unexpected journey of learning to disengage, unwind, and, dare I say, go off-grid.

The Guilt of Inactivity

As someone who thrives on productivity and goal-setting, doing ‘nothing’ often triggers a sense of guilt. It feels like wasted time—a luxury that’s hard to justify when there’s always more to be done.

The Fear of Missing Out

In a world that moves at lightning speed, stepping back can create anxiety. What if I miss an important email? What if an opportunity slips by while I’m off the grid?

The Difficulty in Disconnecting

Our always-on culture, with its constant barrage of notifications, makes it challenging to truly disconnect. For a Type-A person, the urge to check just one more email or complete one more task is a siren call that’s hard to…

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Libby Winkler
Libby Winkler

Written by Libby Winkler

Freelance writer who loves exploring the messiness of humanity, while poking around in nooks of life and shining light on all the things that make us complex..

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